You may be wondering if there is some kind of perfect combination of images—a very specific moment including details—the visualization of which will eventually cause your person of interest to text you. What I am about to tell you may surprise you, because visualization techniques are very, very often taught incorrectly.
The scene itself has no power; images have no manifestation capabilities. You and you alone have the power—through your feelings. A visualized scene is or can merely be a means to generate emotions within you. So, if you are asking yourself what exactly you should or must imagine in order for a specific person to text you, you actually need to ask a completely different question:
What must I assume to be true about myself, about the person, and about both of us for it to be the natural and inevitable result that this person reaches out to me?
This is exactly the question I will answer for you—using Goddard's principles.
So, what scene do you need to imagine, and how, in order for that person to text you? I would like to list a few steps here, about which you will surely develop questions, as it may sound complicated, but I still want to show you a kind of framework.
You must internally become the person for whom it is completely normal and natural to receive a message from this other person. Once you have become that person, the message arrives. You will neither have manipulated the other person nor forced anything. Once you have become that person, the other person has no choice but to text you. Because it is your truth, your state of consciousness.
You must understand that your state of consciousness is the only reality that exists. In this moment and in every other, you are manifesting through it. Through what you are currently thinking and feeling (usually your thoughts produce a feeling). The outside world you see right now is not real. It is merely a mirror of your past state of consciousness. It has no power, absolutely none. Unless you react to it.
Everything you perceive in the external world—every circumstance, every conversation and event, every text message or lack thereof—is simply your own (past) consciousness pressed outward.
It is your own "being" that is showing itself there. So, if you are asking yourself which scene you now need to imagine to receive a text message, you must imagine yourself in an internal state where receiving the text message seems completely natural to you.
Your outer world reflects your state of consciousness. So, if you change yourself, the outside changes too.
It is often taught that you should visualize and "act as if." Please forget that very quickly. Because "acting as if" always happens from a place of lack. Anyone who "acts as if" is in a state of consciousness of lack. And as I stated above, this state of consciousness is then reflected in the outside world with a time delay. Therefore, it is necessary to adopt the inner attitude of "already having."
The Right Scene
You must also be careful not to visualize and feel the wrong scene. Just imagine the following example: You sit or lie down. You close your eyes and see your phone light up. You see the name of the specific person on the screen. You now read the words: "Hi, how are you?" Or some other text.
You feel excitement, euphoria, extreme relief. Because someone once told you that you should generate euphoric feelings when visualizing. You repeat this scene over and over—in the hope that it will come true. And nothing happens. Zero. Or something does happen, but not what you want. Why is that? What are you doing wrong? Unfortunately, quite a lot.
The scene you are imagining in this example is not the fulfillment of your desire—it is just the arrival of proof. And if you imagine receiving proof, you confirm that you do not yet have what you want. You are imagining it from a state of lack—not from a state of fulfillment. Goddard expressed this remarkably clearly. He said that you must not imagine getting something. You should imagine it from the end.
So, you must adopt the state that would be yours if you were already fully fulfilled. But what kind of state is that? It is certainly not excitement. It is not relief. And definitely not euphoria. It is pure matter-of-factness. It is inner peace and the knowledge of always having had what you just now have. So, if you want a specific person to text you, the question is not: What must the message say, what is the right text I need to visualize?
The actually correct question is what you really desire. It is certainly not the anxious, unstable up-and-down dynamic you may know or have had, not the chasing, the waiting for messages, the lingering, the constantly subtle insecurity. In truth, you want the fully fulfilled version. A committed relationship or marriage. Would they text you in such a situation?
Of course they would. And when they do—how do you feel? The answer is: Normal. Loved. Secure. You are not euphoric when a message arrives. You don't think: "Thank God, finally." You think: Oh, a message, let's see what he or she writes. That is the state. That is the feeling. And that is exactly what you must imagine (feel!)—until it feels completely natural to you, until it becomes your automatic inner assumption, until you cannot imagine it any other way.
Now let's look at which scene you can use for yourself.
Neville taught that the best scenes are short, simple, and repeatable. They should reflect the fulfillment of your desire—but without focusing on the desire itself. Here is the scene I suggest to you—you can of course adapt it to your circumstances, but the principle must always remain the same:
Imagine you are lying in bed at night or sitting relaxed on the couch, winding down from the day. You feel your phone vibrate. You pick it up calmly—not anxiously, not euphoric, just chilled. You see the name of your person of interest. You smile—not surprised, but calm, quiet, knowing. A quiet inner: ah, a message from him/her. You don't have to read the message in its entirety or see it in front of you, you don't have to script every word—in fact, it is better if you don't.
What counts is only the feeling you have in that moment (Important: images without feeling have no manifestation power!). The feeling of being loved. The feeling of being thought of. The feeling of mutual connection—that everything is right between you. Maybe you imagine yourself typing a short reply. Maybe you put the phone away and feel satisfied—with the thought: That's just how it is now.
It is normal to be in touch. Then you repeat this scene. You feel it—over and over—until you fall asleep in that feeling. In the feeling: It is already done. It is here, being in touch is already part of your life. Within you is no euphoria, no excitement, just calm and a quiet sense of normality. That is the scene you could use. Do you see the difference? You are not imagining the message to get relief from the pain of absence. You are imagining from the state in which their presence in your life is already a fixed fact. The message itself is not the miracle—the message is the proof of the "miracle" that you already have in your life.
The moment you succeed in fully adopting this state, the moment you fall asleep or start the day in the feeling that it is true, the outer world has no choice but to adjust. It must—because the outer world is not a separate, independent reality. It is your consciousness made visible. Change the inner, and the outer must follow. There is only consciousness, your consciousness. It is the only reality that exists. The outer world is only the shadow, the mirror of your past feelings. Because the "shadow" always shows itself with a time delay.
This assumption means that the outer world has no power whatsoever. It is like an old black-and-white photo. It does not determine your fate; you alone, you all alone, determine its fate.
Why it hasn't manifested yet
Let's now come to why your "visualizing" hasn't worked so far.
Perhaps you have the impression that it isn't working for you. Perhaps you are thinking now: "But I have imagined something. I have visualized. I have felt the feeling. And yet we still have no contact with each other. Why is that, what am I doing wrong?" I will tell you. You have imagined something—yes. But you didn't persist; you didn't stay permanently in the state of "I already have it."
Or you imagined the desire, but not the already accomplished fulfillment of the desire. Or you imagined something once, felt good for a moment—and then returned to your previous state of lack for the rest of the day: to the state of absence, of longing, of the anxious, controlling look at the phone, of communicating with friends that they still haven't reached out, etc. You must choose one state; you must not jump back and forth.
A little bit of visualization, playing around a little, and then continuing in the old feeling will not be enough. The state of consciousness you are in permanently—only that will manifest. And for this, no effort is needed, only a clear decision for that very state.
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